Monday, October 17, 2022

The Biggest Fan: Why Every Writer Needs Someone to Believe in Them

Writing is hard, it's often thankless, and it's full of rejection. 

Every. Single. Day. 

Rejection.

If you're a writer, you probably already know how important it is to have someone on your team--someone who believes in you.

Why?


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1. Motivation

Having someone believe in your writing gives you the confidence to get started and keep going, even when it's tough. Sometimes all you need is a little push, and this person is here for it.

2. Confidence

Knowing that someone out there thinks your work is worth reading can make a huge difference. They know you have what it takes, and they never hesitate to tell you. 

3. Feedback

An ardent supporter is someone to bounce around ideas with, making it easier to get feedback and constructive criticism. This becomes invaluable when developing your stories and craft.

4. Encouragement 

They push you to be better and help you reach your potential, cheering for you the entire way. This can mean the difference between getting published and giving up too soon.

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Every writer has a story to tell, but not every writer has someone who believes in them. 

I won't go so far as to say that a support system is essential to a writer's success, but having someone in your corner through the discouragement and the vulnerability--when the rejections pour in--can be a huge motivator to keep at it.

So if you're a writer and there's someone in your life who fits this description, cherish them. 

If you're not a writer (and you stumbled across this post by accident) but there's a writer in your life, be that person for them. 

If you're a writer without a tribe, consider joining a writing group (in-person or online) and start building relationships with other writers who can be that system for you.

And if you're in need of a quick pick-me-up, feel free to drop me a line or tag me in a tweet.

I'm more than happy to be that person for you.

Be Brilliant!

~Katie~