"Winning" isn't about impressing others.
Largely because it's impossible to impress all of the people all of the time.
(If you're a reformed people-pleaser--like me--this is a tough concept to wrap your head around.)
No, it's better to write your own definition of success: what it means to you.
Because if we're doing important work--the work we're called to do--we should give zero f*cks about what the people around us think.
Define success in your own terms--what it means to "win"--and start aligning your progress accordingly.
That is all.